Lesson series

Vino & Vulvas® : How to Rock a Threesome

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This one is a really fun and high energy event!
  • We talk about how threesomes might be awkward and challenging and how to maximize your experience if you want to try to something like that.
  • We talk about roles and power-play as well as expectations, planning, and debriefing afterward.
  • Hot and sassy with all the V&V depth of education around communication, energy, and safety that you’ve come to know and expect. 


If it’s something you do often, you’ll enjoy laughing along in catharsis and knowing. If you’re new to having multiple partners in bed or just curious about it works or how to find someone who might be game to join you as a third, we’re sure as hell going to talk about that, too. If this is just a fun fantasy for you but you’re not really sure that you want to make this happen in real life, we’ll have some ideas on how to have fun playing with that adventurous energy - whether or not you ever act on it. 

Enjoy!

Heather Edwards

Vino & Vulvas founder and host, Sex Counselor & Educator, Pelvic PT

Natasha Noir Nightly

Sex Educator and Asheville's favorite Draq Queen

Tikva Wolf

Comic, Polyamory Educator, Author of Kimchi Cuddles

Bernie Newton

LPC, Sex Therapist
The mission of Vino & Vulvas® is to invite community between cross-disciplinary sexual health providers and the public, and to create conversation that encompasses the depth of inclusive human sexuality.

What's included?

  • One hour panel discussion
  • 45 minute Anonymous Q&A with live audience

Who is this for?

Vino & Vulvas is always open to all genders, ages (18+), orientations, and races. We strive to be as legitimately inclusive as possible. Know that when you come to V&V, we’re trying hard to avoid heteronormative, cis-normative, white supremacist, sex-negative, patriarchal bullshit. 

About Vino & Vulvas®

We provide an open space for talking about challenging topics that are often taboo. We meet in a public venue to get out of the shadows and create an open community where all of us (women, men, genderqueer, trans, gay, straight, bisexual, experienced, newbies, kinky, vanilla, young, mature, all races etc.) can laugh and learn more about our sexual selves. We can start to bridge the gap between sexual healing practices, medical sexual health, and sex therapy. It's sure to be an exciting journey. Get comfy and and enjoy some edgy, inclusive, and informative conversation.
Meet the Host!

Heather Edwards, PT, Sex Counselor & Educator, Founder of Vino & Vulvas® (she/they)

Heather Edwards, PT, MPT has been a pelvic physical therapist for 17 years and is an AASECT certified Sexuality Counselor as well as a Sex Educator. They achieved their dual certificate at the University of Michigan Sexual Health Certificate Program. They founded Vino & Vulvas in 2015 and it quickly became their favorite thing to do. They have presented at APTA and AASECT conferences and teaches for Pelvic Guru Academy on the topic of Trans-Inclusive Sexual & Pelvic Health. In addition to education and clinical work, Heather is an artist and illustrator of the coloring book series "Coloring Books for the Crotch Enthusiast". To connect with Heather, email [email protected] H
Patrick Jones - Course author

Panelist Bios

Natasha Noir Nightly (she/her or they/them)

Natasha Noir Nightly holds title of Mx. Blue Ridge Pride 2019 and self describes as a pleasure- enthusiastic, radical queer. Natasha holds a degree in Gender and Sexuality Studies from UNCA and is a trained dancer. She judged the Air Sex Championship in 2018. She teaches drag makeup lessons independently and with Blue Ridge Pride. She is feminist and fabulous as fuck. You can catch her performing with PartyFoul at the Odditorium. 

Tikva Wolf, Author, Artist (they/them)

Tikva Wolf is a comic artist focusing on the topics of healthy communication and relationship dynamics. Wolf’s work is used as an aid by therapists and educators, has been translated to several different languages, and is a part of the Kinsey Institute’s archive collection as well as the Ivy Plus Libraries Global Webcomics Archive. Most well-known for the webcomic Kimchi Cuddles, which covers a wide range of non-monogamous and queer topics, Wolf also has a collection of published books and creates card games. For more, check out: TikvaWolf.com

Bernard J. Newton, Jr. MS, LPC, LSAT (he/him)

Bernie is the owner of Newton Psychotherapy & Consulting, where he is a licensed professional counselor in private practice and a business consultant to other psychotherapists. Having received a degree in Neuroscience from William & Mary and a Masters in Marital and Family Therapy from Fuller Theological Seminary, he enjoys postmodern conversations around the intersections of neurophysiology, mental health, family systems, and a broad view of spirituality. Throw sexuality in that mix, and he is having a blast! 
Bernie has been a lay sex educator for his peers since middle school and continues that tradition of education and support in his practice. As a gay man who grew up in a conservative southern household, his personal journey has helped him develop a strong passion for supporting folks as they discover a sense of freedom, depth, and wholeness in their sexuality. In order to foster this work, he is currently fulfilling the educational requirements for certification as a sex therapist and sexuality educator through the Sexual Health Certificate Program at the University of Michigan. 
When not in the office, Bernie can be found on and offstage at his local community theatre and enjoying life in downtown Winston-Salem, NC, with his husband, Chris. You can learn more about his services and contact him at www.newtonpsych.com. 
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