The Desire Paradox

Monday, June 10, 7:00pm
The Grey Eagle

“How do we desire what we already have?” is the question posed by Esther Perel about keeping desire alive in longterm relationship. What if desire is actually a socially constructed trap? We’re going to talk about how shifting to pleasure-centric sexuality may set you free from what Emily Nagoski refers to as “The Desire Imperative”. Come nerd out with us about sexuality and relationships! 

Hosts: Heather Edwards & Whitni Miller

Panelists: Jenny Shealy, Addy Adler, and Cooper Stone
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Neurodivergent Spicy Time

Monday, July 15, 7:00pm
The Grey Eagle

From communication styles to sensory issues to distractions to rejection sensitivity, there are so many aspects of neurodivergence that can affect our sexual selves and our relationships. We’re going to talk about them and give some food for thought, conversation starters, and practical suggestions for how to play to your strengths when it comes to this intersection of neurodivergence and sexuality. Even if you’re not neurodivergent, you’ll find a lot of relatable content in this one! 

Hosts: Heather Edwards & Whitni Miller
Panelists: Tuesday Feral and Natasha Noir Nightly
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WTF, Hormones?

Monday, August 12, 7:00pm
The Grey Eagle

What do perimenopause, menopause, breastfeeding, and transmasculine HRT have in common? Low estrogen effects on the body, and especially the genitals! This discussion is going to dive into the ways that these hormonal changes affect your sex life, relationships, and how you feel about yourself. There’s so much that goes into our own sense of the erotic, let’s talk about what might be getting in the way and what to do about it. 

Hosts: Heather Edwards & Whitni Miller
Panelists: Aleece Fosnight, Uchenna Ossai, and Alex Papale
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Come for the shows...

...Stay for the smut. 

Heather will be reading some of her favorite erotica scenes from her novels and short stories. Look out for some guests, as well!

Vino & Vulvas 2023:

How to KNOW what you want
How to SAY what you want
How to GET what you want

Vino & Vulvas


Myth Busting
A New Kind of Sexy
Curious, Kinky Exploration

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